Man meets Dutch volunteer caring for father's WW2 grave

Juliet Phillips,North Westand
Jenny Coleman,North West
Family Photograph A black and white photograph of Sgt Leslie HeathFamily Photograph
Sgt Leslie Heath was 30 when he died in battle in the Netherlands

A man from Liverpool has said it was "absolutely marvellous" to meet the Dutch volunteer who cares for his father's World War Two grave in the Netherlands.

Sgt Leslie Heath was 30 when he died in February 1945 in Venray while fighting to liberate the country. His son, Leslie, who was only aged one at the time, had always been told he was missing.

But, after being put in touch with Rob Vdhoven, of Venray War Cemetery Foundation, following a BBC North West appeal to help trace families of the men, Leslie learned his father had actually been buried in Venray.

"I've learned more about my father in the last eight weeks than I've known most of my life," he said.

Leslie and Rob are sat on a brown leather sofa. Leslie is wearing a blue sweatshirt and Rob is wearing a green t-shirt.
Leslie (left) said knowing that Rob tends to his father's grave gives him "a lot of comfort"

"I was always brought up with the belief that my father was never found and my mother died believing that," Leslie said.

"He was the love of my mother's life, I know that. She never remarried."

Earlier this year, volunteers at a war cemetery in the Netherlands asked for help to put photographs by the graves at Venray to "tell the story behind the headstone" of the north-west of England soldiers buried there.

"They don't just adopt the grave, they're like detectives," Leslie said.

"They actually found out my father was one of the last men buried because most people there were buried in 1945 but my dad was in a temporary grave that they didn't find until 1947."

Venray War Cemetery Adoption Graves Foundation Close up image of graves at the British war cemetery in Venray, Netherlands. All the graves have a small bright lantern on the ground in front of them and most have a photograph of the soldier buried there. Venray War Cemetery Adoption Graves Foundation
About 100 soldiers from the north-west England are buried in the war cemetery in Venray

Rob, who tends to the grave once a month, said it was important to remember the sacrifices of the men buried there.

"Someone has to care about it," he said.

"Because of the man who's laying at the cemetery we can walk freely in the Netherlands and that's a thing that we can never forget."

Leslie said the care and attention the volunteers give to the graves was "absolutely amazing".

"It gives you a hell of a lot of comfort," he said.

"That they actually put photographs on the grave of every soldier to make it more human.

"It's not a piece of concrete that's there. It's a man."

Rob Vdhoven has short dark hair and is wearing a green t-shirt
Rob says because of Sgt Heath's sacrifice "we can walk freely in the Netherlands"

Leslie's daughter, Michelle, who helped arrange Rob's visit to Liverpool to meet her father, said the family wanted to thank him personally for all that he did for her grandad's grave.

She said her father had given Rob one of his father's war medals as a thank you gift.

On meeting Rob, Leslie said: "We connected immediately, and I felt like I had known him for ages.

"It was a strange feeling, but it was a nice feeling, you know? A really nice feeling."

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